Why won’t he stop watching porn?

Updated on November 3, 2016 in Pornography
4 on February 22, 2016

How can my husband love me while he looks at other naked women in porn when he knows it hurts me?

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1 on February 23, 2016

He can still love you and look at porn.  There are many reasons why men watch porn as I pointed out in the book, as well as ways to approach your husband.

on February 25, 2016

I still don’t understand, why does he need to pleasure himself with images of other women? I will get a copy of your book once it’s out.

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0 on February 26, 2016

In the book I explain that for some men, it can be the pressure to perform, masturbating to porn is less stressful, this is quite common with men that have performance issues.  That can be one issues.  Other men have explained that they had a secret fetish that they felt their wife may not understand.  It could also be that what he is viewing on the screen is more stimulating.  Some suggestions that I point out in the book is to talk about what turns him on and find out if the two of you can explore some of that in your sex life.

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0 on November 3, 2016

My husband was the same. He was so addicted to pornography that I had to take him to an addiction counselling ( http://www.canadadrugrehab.ca/Specialized-Client-Group-Drug-Rehab-Programs.html ) in Calgary. The treatment was really effective. It is not the lack of love, but the mentality of some persons.

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